How It Works

1. Step 1

   Private questionnaire

   You begin with a private questionnaire covering your relationship goals, core values, age preferences, lifestyle, location and willingness to relocate. Financial compatibility questions are optional. Nothing you share is ever shown publicly.

2. Step 2

   Identity & background screening

   Every member — on both sides — completes identity verification and the required safety checks before becoming eligible. Unverified members are never matched.

3. Step 3

   AI compatibility matching

   Our matching system looks for people whose preferences fit yours and whose preferences you fit in return. Stated deal-breakers are treated as firm filters, and our team oversees the process.

4. Step 4

   Private email invitation

   When a potential match is found, each person receives a separate, secure email inviting them to sign in and review. Each of you privately accepts or declines. Your decision stays private until both have responded.

5. Step 5

   Mutual acceptance unlocks communication

   Only when both of you accept — and the required legal disclosures and consent are completed — does private in-platform messaging open. Take your time; there is no pressure.

What we don't do

• No public profiles
• No unsolicited contact
• No guaranteed match counts
• No sharing of personal email addresses before mutual acceptance